Narrogin men shine light on domestic violence conversation at Share & Care Community Services Group forum

A crowd of men broke open the silence surrounding the oft-taboo topic of domestic violence last week, with a forum that encouraged men to be part of the solution to the hidden issue.

More than 50 people attended the forum hosted by family and domestic violence agency Share & Care Community Services Group, Holyoake and the Regional Men’s Health Initiative in Narrogin on June 19.

Three community leaders — Narrogin officer-in-charge Sen. Sgt. Ryan Devine, RMHI community educator Chris Gibbs and clinical nurse specialist Tendai Makanyanga — spoke to share their insights on how to break the cycle.

Sen. Sgt. Devine said the event was invaluable in starting the conversation about the community’s “most prevalent issue”.

“It is the most prevalent issue we’re facing in the community today and has far-reaching effects to the community and those involved in it,” he said.

“This has been an invaluable night to start the conversation among men in the community around family and domestic violence, not only that, but alcohol and other drugs and the role they play in family and domestic violence.”

Mr Makanyanga discussed the links between poor mental health and domestic violence, and said men need to take a proactive role to be “part of the solution in every sense of the word.”

Empowerment is what community educator Mr Gibbs preached in his speech.

“If they’re in a direct situation or a peripheral situation that needs attention, they have the courage to do something about it and the courage to stand up for themselves, their families, their children, and their mates, so we can get good outcomes and stronger communities that are safe for everyone,” he said.

Share & Care Upper Great Southern program manager for family and domestic violence services Tara Lanciano said the attendees demonstrated the leadership and courage needed to combat the issue.

“Share & Care’s aim is men supporting men – for our families and our communities,” she said.

“Whether you’re a young man just starting out or an older man with years of experience, your voice and your presence matter.

“When men support each other, it is better for them, for their families and for the whole community.”

The event culminated in a moving candlelit vigil to honour those in the community who had been lost to domestic violence.

If you or someone you know is experiencing family violence, phone 1800 RESPECT (1800 737 732) or the Crisis Care Helpline on 1800 199 008.